Things I Wish My Friends Knew Before Visiting Laos

I always love when friends tell me they are coming to Laos. It is a beautiful country, warm in both climate and people, and full of moments that stay with you long after you leave. But Laos is also different from many places people are used to. Knowing a few things in advance can make your trip much smoother, more enjoyable, and free from unnecessary frustration.

Laos moves slowly—and that is normal

Things in Laos rarely happen quickly. Food may take longer to arrive, plans may change, and schedules are often flexible. This is not inefficiency or lack of care. It is simply the rhythm of life. Once you stop rushing, the country starts to make sense. If you expect things to work exactly on time, you may feel stressed. If you allow extra time, you will feel relaxed.

“No problem” does not always mean “yes”

You will often hear people say “no problem” or smile even when they are unsure. This is a polite way of avoiding conflict, not a promise. If something is important, it is okay to ask gently again or clarify. Staying calm and friendly works much better than being direct or demanding.

Quiet and calm are appreciated

Lao culture values calm behavior. Speaking softly, moving gently, and being patient are all signs of respect. Loud voices, strong emotions, or public frustration can make people uncomfortable. You do not need to change who you are—just lower the volume a little.

Not everything is designed for tourists

Some places are simple. Facilities may be basic, signs may be limited, and services may feel informal. This is part of the experience, not a problem. If you expect luxury everywhere, you may be disappointed. If you expect honesty and simplicity, you will enjoy Laos much more.

Photos are okay, but people matter more

Laos is very photogenic, but people are not decorations. Always ask before taking photos of individuals, especially children or monks. A smile and a small gesture of asking goes a long way. Many people are happy to say yes when they feel respected.

Dress and body language matter more than rules

You do not need to dress formally, but modest clothing shows respect, especially in temples and villages. Covering shoulders and knees is appreciated. Small gestures—like not pointing feet at people or sacred objects—help avoid uncomfortable situations.

Spicy food is real here

Lao food can be very spicy. If you are not used to it, say so clearly when ordering. Do not be shy about asking for less chili. Locals understand, and it will save you from an unpleasant surprise.

Things will go wrong sometimes—and that is okay

Power cuts, internet issues, traffic delays, or misunderstandings happen. Getting angry rarely helps. Laughing, waiting, or adapting usually does. The more flexible you are, the more Laos will reward you.

Laos is not about checking boxes

Laos is not a place to rush through. It is a place to feel. Sit longer. Walk slower. Talk to people. Spend time in one place instead of many. The memories you take home will come from moments, not attractions.

If you come to Laos with patience, curiosity, and kindness, you will almost certainly have a good experience. And if something feels confusing at first, remember—you are not doing it wrong. You are just learning a different way of living.

That is part of what makes Laos special 🙂